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Being popped an unexpected question might be disconcerting to other people
but Judges are expected to make quick decisions. Almost without exception, TDP
Pop Question elicits delightful spontaneity as we ask some of the things you would
like to ask. So, we asked a
cross section of very popular Judges...
How Do You Deal With Irate Exhibitors?
JUDY DONIER said very seriously,
“I don’t have too many anymore. I think word has gotten out that I don’t tolerate it. When a few
handlers saw me call a bench committee on a judge that was exhibiting, that did
it. It shouldn’t be tolerated. I, as an exhibitor, am at a show almost every
single weekend of my life unless there’s some emergency, and I have never been
rude to a judge. Anybody that comes out of the ring without a smile even though
you’d like to kick tires should learn to practice self-control and good
manners."
JANE FORSYTH
typically candid and with good humor, said, “I would not take it. Nobody pays
me enough to deal with an irate exhibitor any more than I used to deal with
irate clients. If I had a client that wanted to be hard to get along with, I
just would inform them they needed a new handler. (smile) There were a number of
them that got “fired” and then wanted to know if I would take them back and
I’d say, if you’ve learned your lesson, then Yes. I don’t think there’s
enough money in this world to take abuse from people unless you deserve it and
(big chuckle) I never found I deserved it!”
JANE KAY
was her wonderful straightforward and succinct self. “This is an answer that
could mess you up but I’ve never had any. I really haven’t. In the years
that I’ve been judging I have not had any problems. I certainly hope that
doesn’t change.”
GENE BLAKE
chuckled “I haven’t had to deal with irate exhibitors. Believe me, I don’t
believe in things out of control. I think a judge has to be in control of his
ring. Not only the judging part but to handle everything that’s going on in
the ring, like if an exhibitor is running up on another exhibitor, I think it’s
the judge’s problem - it is not the exhibitor’s problem to make that person
get under control. For example, a dog ran up on another
dog but I was prepared for it. (He smiled.) “I hope exhibitors realize that
judges talk to each other, have dinner, you know, and if an exhibitor does
something like that once, they’ll probably do it again and the judges pretty
much know who they are.”
LORRAINE BOUTWELL
had to reach for the hypothetical as she said, “Well, I would try to talk with
them and try to find out what their problem is. If they would like, I’m always
happy to evaluate their dog for them. I’ve been very lucky, I’ve not had
very many irate exhibitors, and I don’t know whether that’s because I keep
pretty busy, or whether it’s that I try to talk with people if they want to
talk. In fact just this last weekend, I had two different people bring dogs back
to the ring and we went over them and talked about them. I don’t mind doing
that, if I have time, you know, if it doesn’t hold my judging up.”
BILL SHELTON
said with emphasis, “I’ve never had an irate exhibitor.
However, I try to be kind of a no-nonsense person when I judge. I try to be
courteous and polite to every exhibitor, I try to give every dog its time, and I
believe and hope that they are treating me the same. I hope they understand
that it is a serious process we judges are doing and that we demand respect. I
once had an exhibitor who snatched the ribbon out of my hand, it was a fourth
place ribbon and it took me completely off guard. No sense in that.”
BOB HASTINGS
(now deceased) quipped “To be very honest with you, I’ve never dealt with
one, never had anybody like that. Oh I’ve had somebody walk by and say ‘well
that isn’t what I’d put up’, but I don’t pay any attention to that. I
have yet to have anyone come up with an argument or something like ‘well, I
believe otherwise.’
SUSAN PORTERFIELD
thought a moment and then said “I don’t know that I’ve had anyone that has
shown emotions that openly. I may hear feedback later on or be asked an opinion
but I don’t know that I’ve heard anything at the time I’m actually in the
position of judge.”
CHARLOTTE PATTERSON
gave the question sincere consideration, “I think that the judge has to
realize that the reason someone might be irate is because they’ve lost. At the
moment they are very emotionally wrought up and I think first of all, you have
to be polite. A judge has to be polite but I also think that you should be firm
in your conviction and you should always have a reason for whatever placements
you make. You should not be afraid to give these reasons but the one thing a
judge should never do is to fall into the trap of talking about another exhibit.
You don’t talk about the other one - you only talk to that person about their
exhibit.”
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